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Betty Phelps-Refior

May 1st, 1921 - May 2nd, 2019

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Betty Phelps-Refior, 97, of Whitewater passed away on Thursday, May 2, 2019 surrounded by friends and family who loved her dearly at Fairhaven Retirement Community. Betty was born on October 20, 1921 in Warsaw, Indiana to Royal and Erba (Hinkson) Pottenger. She graduated Warsaw High School and later graduated from Manchester College with a degree in occupational therapy. In 1950, Betty married Charles Phelps in Peru, Indiana. Together they raised two children. Charles passed away in 1969. Later, Betty met Evertt Refior and they married in 1996 in Warsaw, Indiana. After marrying, they moved to whitewater where Betty lived for 22 years. Evertt passed away in 2008. Betty was a member of the World Federalists Organization, studied Esperanto and was a member of Christ the Servant. She enjoyed walking two to three miles each day and continued her walking where she would greet the morning Fairhaven staff up until several weeks before her death. In 1986 Betty joined the Great Peace March and spent several months walking the entire way from Los Angles to Washington DC. She repeated Peace walks in several other countries including the Soviet Union. Riding her bike and working on her blue bird trail kept Betty active well into her 90’s. Betty was very passionate about saving the bluebirds and saving the bees and even donated her family farm to Michael Fields Institute for organic farming and to establish a bee sanctuary. Betty is survived by her children, Rebecca (Linda Patrick) Phelps, Carl (Esther) Phelps; and grandson, Andy Phelps. She is preceded in death by her siblings, Erna Esbenson, Ora Kunkle, and Jimmy Pottenger. A time for fellowship in honor of Betty will take place at 2:30 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2019 at Fairhaven. The family would like to give special thanks to all the kind staff at Fairhaven who came along side Betty as friends for over 20 years. If you would like to give a gift in her honor, in lieu of flowers a gift of $30.00 to Heifer International would send a hive of bees to a farming family and would be a fitting tribute. https://www.heifer.org/gift-catalog/animals-nutrition/honeybees-donation.html Nitardy in Whitewater is assisting the family with arrangements. www.nitardyfuneralhome.com

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Nitardy Funeral Homes - Whitewater

Nitardy Funeral Homes - Whitewater

We have proudly served the Southern Wisconsin community since 1932, when our founder Hilmar A. Nitardy opened his first funeral home in the area. We feel very fortunate to continue serving the community three generations later. In 2007, we constructed our first funeral home in Whitewater. Here, our mission is the same as it has been for over 90 years: help walk our community through times of grief and provide beautiful and meaningful services to every family that walks through our doors. We are proud that Whitewater families trust us to take care of their loved ones....

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