John Robert Abernethy

John Robert Abernethy, 65, born and raised in Charlotte, NC died on May 27th in the peace and comforts of his home from complications of congestive heart failure and diabetes. John grew up in the Sherwood Forest neighborhood where he, his brothers, cousins and many friends all ran around. He was the very first graduate of Providence Day School in 1975. He continued his education at Central Piedmont becoming a technically gifted repairman. He could fix anything electronic but John especially loved installing the latest Pioneer stereo equipment in your car. Later he became a salesman in the electronics and printing industry, exploring his many interests as a chef and later as a specialized chauffer. When John wasnt working, he could usually be found at his homes down by "The River". He loved to ski, swim, cook out or just be hanging out with his many friends enjoying himself. He was a Master Mason of St Andrews Lodge #702, a Shriner and loved a lazy sunny day at the Red Fez Club pool. John absolutely loved being Santa; bringing delighted joy to the kids at the Red Fez Club and elsewhere. Johns path among us in life was as an affable free spirit who was fascinated by good foods, great friends, spirited libations, its natural beauty and wondrous music (especially the band "Yes"). His faith was soundly rooted in a forgiving and loving brand of simple Christianity. It became deeper and more profound as he aged and the result of his several illnesses became more certain. Any person down on his luck had an understanding and kind friend in John Abernethy. He truly had a heart as big as the whole outdoors. We will miss him. John is survived by his son, Christopher John Abernethy, brothers, Ernie (Martha) and David (Susan). He was the uncle of Tommy, Jessi and Mackenzie and cousin to Brad, Jeff, Donna, Kathy and Lee. His family also includes Kevin, Jennifer, Kelly and Mike. He was predeceased by his parents, Sarah and Ernest (Tug) Abernethy and his beloved cousin Jeff. A celebration of life service will be held on June 11,2022 at 2:00pm. Visitation begins at 1:00 at JB Tallent Funeral Home at 1937 N. Sharon Amity Rd.,28205 Memorials can be sent to Steele Creek Masonic Lodge, PO Box 7171, Charlotte, NC 28241 c/o Oxford Orphanage, Shriners Hospitals for Children, c/o Development Office, 2900 N. Rocky Point Dr., Tampa FL, 33607 or The Matthew House Counseling Center, 1101 Tyvola Rd., Ste 212, Charlotte NC 28217 We are sorry for the late notice but when have you known John to be on time. Visitation Saturday, June 11, 2022 1:00 PM - 2:00 PM Tribute & Tallent Funerals & Cremations 1937 N. Sharon Amity Road Charlotte NC 28205 United States 7045671500 Celebration of Life Saturday, June 11, 2022 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Tribute & Tallent Funerals & Cremations 1937 N. Sharon Amity Road Charlotte NC 28205 United States 7045671500