Marsha "Haylett" D. Hays

October 3rd, 1952 - August 22nd, 2012

Marsha Hays, 59, of Homedale passed away peacefully after a long battle with cancer on August 22, 2012. Marsha was born October 3, 1952 in Hawthorne, Nevada to Orville F. Haylett and Barbara Kelly Haylett. After her father's death in 1960, the family moved to Homedale where she attended Homedale Schools and graduated in 1970. Marsha married her high school sweetheart, Allen Hays, on August 7, 1971 at St. Hubert's Catholic Church in Homedale. They were a true love story. Together they raised two sons that were the loves of her life. Marsha and Allen spent many wonderful years traveling around to their high school and college sporting events. She was very proud of the fact that they grew up and both are shaping the lives of young adults in their chosen careers. Marsha was blessed with six wonderful little grandchildren. She loved her time spent with the grandkids and spent hours laughing about their antics. They always brought her so much joy and made every bad day so much better. Marsha worked for US Bank for a total of 25 years and the City of Homedale for 16 years. She was a lifelong member of the Catholic Church where she held the offices of Parish Council President and Parish Council Secretary. She was a Eucharistic Minister and on the Human Resources Committee before her illness. The family always joked that Marsha brainwashed her nieces and nephews from birth into believing that she was their favorite aunt. She worked very hard to live up to that honor and always tried to make them know how special they were to her. Marsha made it a priority to attend any event they were involved in and be there for them. A true testament to Marsha being the "favorite aunt" was when she would have any kind of celebration at her home. Her nieces and nephews would make the effort and time to be there. Marsha was the party planner in the family, often hosting thirty or more people. It was always a fun day spent with family and friends with many laughs, lots of teasing, and slightly exaggerated stories. They never wanted to miss out on one of her special gatherings. Marsha was the most loving wife, mother, daughter, sister, grandmother, aunt and friend. It didn't matter if you knew Marsha for fifteen minutes or fifteen years, she would make you feel as though you had known her your whole life. Marsha had a smile that warmed your heart and a witty sense of humor that would light up a room. Marsha is survived by her husband of 41 years, Allen Hays, her children, Josh (Tammy) Hays, Luke (Ylonda) Hays; her grandchildren Hunter, Molly, Grace Elizabeth, Maris, Hudson, and Brooks; mother Barbara Haylett; In-laws Robert and Mary Lou Hays; brothers Jeff (Max) Haylett, Greg (Karla) Haylett, Kirk (Jolene) Haylett; sister Michele (Larry) Spath; brother-in-law Robert (Susan) Hays; sister-in-law Marcia (Cary) Hoshaw; uncles Bob Kelly, Bill Haylett; aunts Nathelle (Bob) McKee, Donna Haylett. Numerous nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by her father Orville Haylett. Maternal grandparents Fred and Anna McPheeters Kelly. Paternal Grandparents Dan Haylett and Lula Babbitt. Rosary Devotion will be held at 7:00pm Friday, August 24, 2012 at Flahiff Funeral Chapel in Homedale. Funeral Mass for Marsha will be held at 11:30am Saturday, August 25, 2012 at Our Lady of the Valley Catholic Church in Caldwell. Interment will follow at Marsing-Homedale Cemetery. Condolences for the family may be left online at www.flahifffuneralchapel.com. Service Information

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Rodney and Edith Roe

We are so sorry to hear that your dear mother and a friend to all of us has passed away. We know how hard it is to lose a mother; and we know that all of Homedale will miss her cheerful smile. We are so sorry for your loss. Rodney and Edith Roe

Published March 30th, 2024

Nicole Larzelier DeVries

Dear Hays - Haylett Family, Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. We know your loss is great. We are so sorry. Marsha was such an amazing lady. Asking the Lord to bring you comfort & His peace that passes understanding. With love, thoughts, & prayers, Nicole (Larzelier) & John DeVries Isabelle, Lauren, Annalise & Elias

Published March 30th, 2024

Kathy Wormald

Josh,Tammy, Hunter, Molly, & Grace, We are so sorry about the death of your mom and grandmother. She was so blessed to have all of you in her life and we know how very much she loved you. We know you are comforted in the assurance that she now is with her Lord Jesus. Safe travels as you come back to Wyoming. Hugs to all! Kathy & Tracy

Published March 30th, 2024

Rich and Eva Glover

Allen and family, we are so blessed to meet Marsha and the Hays clan during the TVCC days and of course the Lakewood garage sales. It is true that meeting Marsha (and you) for 15 minutes made us feel like we were friends for 15 years. You and your family are special people, you all were so friendly to us and our son Eddie. We had wonderful times that will always be remembered. We'll never forget her smiling face and her somewhat exaggerated funny stories. She was a hoot! Allen give us a call any time. 342-5041. God Bless You and your family, Sincerely, Rich and Eva Glover

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Marie and Karen Jereb

Allen and Family Sorry for your loss of Marsha she was the nicest person around she will be greatly missed. the Jereb Sisters

Published March 30th, 2024

Marci Blandford

So verty sorry to hear of your loss. Marcia was such a dearly and special woman. Her kindness, laughter and radient smile have touched so many. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Published March 30th, 2024

Chad Arnzen

Allen, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless. Chad Arnzen and Family

Published March 30th, 2024

Rachael Reyes (Valle)

Allen, Josh, Tammy, Luke & Barb - I am so sadden to hear of my friend's passing. My thoughts and prayers for everyone and that the Lord gives you peace and comfort through this difficult time.

Published March 30th, 2024

Teri Hoover

Allen, I am so sorry for you and the boys loss, as you well know Marsha was a great person and will be missed by many, I always admired her laugh and way of making everyone around her feel welcomed, it did matter if you were a close family member or distance the word distance relative did not exist in Marsha''s vocabulary, to her we were all just family, she truly was a one of a kind. Teri

Published March 30th, 2024

Greg and Gena Raney

Allen and Family, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you during this hard time. Hope you can find peace with Marsha no longer suffering from cancer. She was a great person and we are glad we had a chance to know her. Best wishes to all of you. Raney Family

Published March 30th, 2024

Alice

She was a wonderful friend and co-worker and she will be greatly missed. I am truly a better person for having know her. Alice

Published March 30th, 2024

Darryl Warwick

I had a chance to be Marsha's first boss at the bank after her High School graduation. What a sharp, wonderful young lady with a beautiful SMILE. We had a chance to see her grow with her work and great family. She touched our lives and many, many more. God Bless Darryl & Janet

Published March 30th, 2024

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