Todd Kester

Todd Kester. TK to those of us lucky enough to have been in his presence. He embodied kindness he demonstrated grace. He shared thoughtfulness in his actions. He showered those he loved with his time and his touch. He was the Son in Law a parent dreams of… I could not have asked God to sculpt a more tender sweet compassionate man to hold the heart of my daughter. Todd asked for our daughter’s hand and we willing accepted his offer to love and cherish our Aimee. We love Todd as our own. He gifted our family with an incredible tenderness that he always bestowed upon our daughter, and her son. He was an amazing father to his 3 very wonderful sons and we all so looked forward to the blending of two families to create ONE WHOLE family of love. We shall be forever grateful for the time we were given with TK and we will always yearn for one more of his smiles… Heaven has gained the most precious angel. If you love Todd, be a good person. That’s what Todd would want…. XOXO Kathy Barserian

Todd Kester. TK to those of us lucky enough to have been in his presence. He embodied kindness he demonstrated grace. He shared thoughtfulness in his actions. He showered those he loved with his time and his touch. He was the Son in Law a parent dreams of… I could not have asked God to sculpt a more tender sweet compassionate man to hold the heart of my daughter. Todd asked for our daughter’s hand and we willing accepted his offer to love and cherish our Aimee. We love Todd as our own. He gifted our family with an incredible tenderness that he always bestowed upon our daughter, and her son. He was an amazing father to his 3 very wonderful sons and we all so looked forward to the blending of two families to create ONE WHOLE family of love. We shall be forever grateful for the time we were given with TK and we will always yearn for one more of his smiles… Heaven has gained the most precious angel. If you love Todd, be a good person. That’s what Todd would want…. XOXO Kathy Barserian

Regrettably, I had not seen Todd in some years. Always figured that there would be time to reconnect. When I think of him, the first thing that comes to mind is his big smile. He wore it often. David Karp

Regrettably, I had not seen Todd in some years. Always figured that there would be time to reconnect. When I think of him, the first thing that comes to mind is his big smile. He wore it often. David Karp

Todd, You will be deeply missed. We are forever grateful for the support and guidance you have provided all of us. You treated our Las Cruces team like family and we are eternally grateful for you. Your sense of humor and laughter will be missed by all who knew you. Your boys and Aimee are in our prays through this difficult time. Until we meet again… Team Las Cruces

Todd, You will be deeply missed. We are forever grateful for the support and guidance you have provided all of us. You treated our Las Cruces team like family and we are eternally grateful for you. Your sense of humor and laughter will be missed by all who knew you. Your boys and Aimee are in our prays through this difficult time. Until we meet again… Team Las Cruces

There are no words that could ever articulate how special Todd was to this world. Todd was a one of a kind genuine person who had true empathy for everyone he met. Todd cared for everyone more than he cared for himself, an incredible burden that he couldn’t help but carry. Alex, Andrew, and Nicholas he adored you. He talked about you all the time with great pride. He knew he had great kids and that your future is bright. Amiee and Karter he found his ultimate happiness when you both came into his life completing a beautiful blended family. Amiee he always had the most amazing smile when he talked about you. You matched his genuineness and were there to lighten the load he carried for so long alone. My heart goes out to all of you. There are no words that will make this ok but please know you are loved and that we will be here to share in his memory. God bless. “The lotus flower blooms most beautifully from the deepest and thickest mud.” – Buddhist Proverb

There are no words that could ever articulate how special Todd was to this world. Todd was a one of a kind genuine person who had true empathy for everyone he met. Todd cared for everyone more than he cared for himself, an incredible burden that he couldn’t help but carry. Alex, Andrew, and Nicholas he adored you. He talked about you all the time with great pride. He knew he had great kids and that your future is bright. Amiee and Karter he found his ultimate happiness when you both came into his life completing a beautiful blended family. Amiee he always had the most amazing smile when he talked about you. You matched his genuineness and were there to lighten the load he carried for so long alone. My heart goes out to all of you. There are no words that will make this ok but please know you are loved and that we will be here to share in his memory. God bless. “The lotus flower blooms most beautifully from the deepest and thickest mud.” – Buddhist Proverb

Todd was an absolute amazing human being. I am so blessed to have had him in my life and part of my journey. Over the years Todd and I would have long conversations over dinner and usually and Old Fashioned (or two). We would have the hard conversations about life and our personal struggles, what we are doing to get better, or just having a space where we could vent about life. Our mental health journeys carried many similarities, it was in our respective journeys that we truly bonded. Todd was like a big brother that I never had, always supportive, empathetic and present, whenever I needed to talk. He would check in on me, see how I was doing, especially in some of my most dark moments. Todd was one of the few people to tell me how proud they were of me and what I have achieved. He was one of those people that even when things seemed bleak, he had a way of always seeing the bright side. These are the intangibles that we will never be able to replace, Todd was a light in this world. I cannot believe he is no longer with us. For as long as I live, I will remember Todd at our last meal together a few short weeks ago. He was glowing, he was truly happy. The world lost a great one and it will never be the same place without him in it. I love you brother, until the end. "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard" -- A.A. Miline

Todd was an absolute amazing human being. I am so blessed to have had him in my life and part of my journey. Over the years Todd and I would have long conversations over dinner and usually and Old Fashioned (or two). We would have the hard conversations about life and our personal struggles, what we are doing to get better, or just having a space where we could vent about life. Our mental health journeys carried many similarities, it was in our respective journeys that we truly bonded. Todd was like a big brother that I never had, always supportive, empathetic and present, whenever I needed to talk. He would check in on me, see how I was doing, especially in some of my most dark moments. Todd was one of the few people to tell me how proud they were of me and what I have achieved. He was one of those people that even when things seemed bleak, he had a way of always seeing the bright side. These are the intangibles that we will never be able to replace, Todd was a light in this world. I cannot believe he is no longer with us. For as long as I live, I will remember Todd at our last meal together a few short weeks ago. He was glowing, he was truly happy. The world lost a great one and it will never be the same place without him in it. I love you brother, until the end. "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard" -- A.A. Miline

Our hearts are heavy at the loss of a remarkable individual whose sudden departure has left an irreplaceable void. I will miss our long talks on topics that ranged from growing up in Iowa and summer jobs like walking beans and detasseling corn, to what makes the best old fashion and traeger recipes, from locker room and on ice hockey stories, to family and work and supporting each other in overcoming everyday challenges, and everything in between. From the first time we met in August 1999, you were a consistent blessing in my life, a source of kindness, and unwavering support. Your infectious laughter, intense enthusiasm, and heartfelt compassion enriched my life in ways beyond measure. I will miss you my friend...

Our hearts are heavy at the loss of a remarkable individual whose sudden departure has left an irreplaceable void. I will miss our long talks on topics that ranged from growing up in Iowa and summer jobs like walking beans and detasseling corn, to what makes the best old fashion and traeger recipes, from locker room and on ice hockey stories, to family and work and supporting each other in overcoming everyday challenges, and everything in between. From the first time we met in August 1999, you were a consistent blessing in my life, a source of kindness, and unwavering support. Your infectious laughter, intense enthusiasm, and heartfelt compassion enriched my life in ways beyond measure. I will miss you my friend...

Tina and I want to offer our condolences to Aimee and the rest of Todd's family. You will remain in our hearts and prayers. We did not know Todd personally, but we know we would be better people if we had. If there is anything we can do to help during this difficult time, please reach out anytime. With our heartfelt sympathy, Tina and Todd

Tina and I want to offer our condolences to Aimee and the rest of Todd's family. You will remain in our hearts and prayers. We did not know Todd personally, but we know we would be better people if we had. If there is anything we can do to help during this difficult time, please reach out anytime. With our heartfelt sympathy, Tina and Todd

This one hits hard. Todd was one of my first friends when I moved to Denver in 2000 and remained a friend ever since. We might go months or years without talking and could pick up right where we left off. Thank you, Todd for all of the great times. So many video games, horseshoe bouts, football rivalries, and true genuine laughter and friendship. God speed and I hope to see you on the other side. Rest in peace my friend.

This one hits hard. Todd was one of my first friends when I moved to Denver in 2000 and remained a friend ever since. We might go months or years without talking and could pick up right where we left off. Thank you, Todd for all of the great times. So many video games, horseshoe bouts, football rivalries, and true genuine laughter and friendship. God speed and I hope to see you on the other side. Rest in peace my friend.

Todd was a truly remarkable soul, always upbeat and full of energy, regardless of personal circumstance. He was a true visionary who I could always count on as a wellspring of new ideas as well as a sounding board for my what-if’s and how-about’s. We shared a love for data science and always had too little time to discuss the latest developments and opportunities in the field. I will treasure the memory of our animated whiteboard sessions where we solved profound challenges before stopping down for a quick pint and further pontification. Todd always kept those follow-up sessions brief because, as a dedicated father, his sons were his top priority and he needed to maximize the time he spent with them. I will remember Todd as always thinking, always dreaming, and always inspiring those around him with his innovative ideas for making life better for everyone.

Todd was a truly remarkable soul, always upbeat and full of energy, regardless of personal circumstance. He was a true visionary who I could always count on as a wellspring of new ideas as well as a sounding board for my what-if’s and how-about’s. We shared a love for data science and always had too little time to discuss the latest developments and opportunities in the field. I will treasure the memory of our animated whiteboard sessions where we solved profound challenges before stopping down for a quick pint and further pontification. Todd always kept those follow-up sessions brief because, as a dedicated father, his sons were his top priority and he needed to maximize the time he spent with them. I will remember Todd as always thinking, always dreaming, and always inspiring those around him with his innovative ideas for making life better for everyone.

Hearing of Todd’s passing has left a hole in my heart. Sometimes you don’t appreciate the things you have until they are lost. Todd was a kind, supportive friend who always had a word of encouragement or time for a talk over drinks. I will miss your wisdom, compassion, and enthusiasm. I will remember all the adventures, late nights in foreign countries, and inspiring brainstorming sessions. Best wishes to all left behind as we work through our grief.

Hearing of Todd’s passing has left a hole in my heart. Sometimes you don’t appreciate the things you have until they are lost. Todd was a kind, supportive friend who always had a word of encouragement or time for a talk over drinks. I will miss your wisdom, compassion, and enthusiasm. I will remember all the adventures, late nights in foreign countries, and inspiring brainstorming sessions. Best wishes to all left behind as we work through our grief.

Words can't come close to the emotions felt or capturing the sense of loss. Kind-hearted and brilliant are gross understatements when describing Todd. We'll all miss him dearly.

Words can't come close to the emotions felt or capturing the sense of loss. Kind-hearted and brilliant are gross understatements when describing Todd. We'll all miss him dearly.