10 Beautiful Places to Scatter a Loved One’s Ashes

When someone you love is cremated, deciding what to do with their ashes can feel like a huge question. You want to honor their memory meaningfully – something that reflects who they were, what they loved, and what they meant to you.

Where Are the Best Places to Scatter Ashes?

The best places to scatter ashes include oceans, mountaintops, backyards, national parks, gardens, sacred spaces, and scattering gardens. Each offers a unique way to honor your loved one’s memory with meaning and care.

Whether you’re holding the ashes now or simply planning ahead, these 10 ideas may help you find a place that feels just right.

1. The Ocean

Scattering ashes at sea is timeless, peaceful, and often deeply symbolic. The rhythm of the waves can feel like a comforting sendoff.

Things to know:

• In the U.S., ashes must be scattered at least three nautical miles from shore.
• You (or the charter you hire) must notify the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) within 30 days.
• A water-soluble urn can make the experience even more serene.

2. A National or State Park

If your loved one found joy in nature – hiking, camping, or simply soaking in a view – a favorite park might be the perfect place.

Before you go:

• Contact the park office to ask about rules or permits. Here are the ash scattering rules for ten popular national parks.
• Pick a quiet, low-traffic area that feels respectful.
• Avoid scattering near water sources or protected plants.

3. A Backyard or Family Property

For some families, keeping things close to home is comforting. Scattering ashes in a backyard garden or under a favorite tree can create a lasting connection.

Keep in mind:

• You’ll need permission if it’s not your property.
• Consider planting a tree or placing a small marker.
• Think about whether you plan to stay in that home long-term.

4. A Scenic Overlook or Mountaintop

If your loved one was always chasing the view or just loved the feeling of wide-open spaces, a mountaintop scatter may be the perfect tribute.

Tips:

• Choose a location with easy, safe access.
• Windy spots require caution – always scatter downwind.
• Bring tissues. The moment can be more powerful than you expect.

5. A Desert or Quiet Landscape

There’s something sacred about silence. A desert, canyon, or other wide-open space can offer stillness and beauty without distractions.

To consider:

• Go at sunrise or sunset for cooler temperatures and a gentler experience.
• Make sure it’s public land or get permission if it’s private.
• Watch out for wildlife and respect the natural environment.

6. From the Sky

You can scatter ashes from an airplane, helicopter, or even a hot air balloon. It’s dramatic, symbolic, and significant if your loved one loved to fly or had a free spirit.

Here’s how it works:

• Work with a licensed provider who understands the legalities.
• You may be unable to scatter directly over specific places, so check the flight plan.
• Consider filming the release for family who can’t attend.

7. A Sacred or Spiritual Place

Some families find peace in scattering ashes near a church, temple, or religious retreat, especially if their loved one had a strong spiritual connection.

What to ask:

• Does the location allow scattering? Not all do.
• Are there memorial gardens or columbaria on the grounds?
• Can you place a small marker or attend a service?

8. A Garden or Under a Tree

This is a gentle, nurturing choice, especially if your loved one enjoyed gardening.

Meaningful touches:

• Use a biodegradable urn and plant a flower, bush, or tree.
• Invite close friends or family to take part.
• Return each season to see how things grow and change.

9. A Cremation Scattering Garden

These specially designated areas in cemeteries or memorial parks welcome families to scatter ashes with care.

Why it works:

• You’ll have a dedicated place to visit.
• Some locations let you add a nameplate or stone.
• It combines the freedom of scattering with the structure of a memorial.

10. A Place That Held Meaning

Maybe it’s the stadium where they cheered every game. Or the beach where they spent every summer. Or the city skyline they never stopped talking about. If it mattered to them, it matters now.

A few things to remember:

• Public places often have restrictions, so check first.
• If scattering isn’t allowed, consider symbolic keepsakes, like cremation jewelry or a custom garden stone.
• The moment doesn’t have to be big. Just honest.

FAQ About Scattering Ashes

Q. Can I scatter ashes anywhere?

No. While many public and private locations allow scattering, you typically need permission or must follow local laws. Always check with landowners, park services, or venues before proceeding.

Q. Do I need a permit to scatter ashes in nature?

In some cases, yes. National and state parks often require permits or written permission. Oceans fall under federal EPA regulations and require scattering at least three nautical miles from shore.

Q. What if I want to keep some of the ashes?

You absolutely can. One of the benefits of cremation is that ashes can be divided. Many families keep a small amount in a keepsake urn or cremation jewelry, or incorporate ashes into art or living memorials like trees or reefs. Explore our cremation jewelry and keepsake collections for beautiful memorial items. 

Q. Is scattering ashes legal in all 50 states?

Yes, but the laws vary by state and location. It's always a good idea to check with local authorities or funeral professionals to ensure compliance.

H2: Learn More About Cremation

More Americans now choose cremation over burial for several reasons: it’s more affordable, doesn’t require a dedicated burial plot, and offers many memorialization choices. If you’re considering cremation for a loved one or as part of your end-of-life planning, we recommend 10 Myths About Cremation Debunked and Is Cremation Right for You. 

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