12 Meaningful Items to Put in a Loved One’s Casket

When you’re planning a funeral, even the smallest gestures can feel deeply important. Placing a personal item in your loved one’s casket is one way to say goodbye with intention. These objects don’t need to be expensive or elaborate, just heartfelt. We’ve collected a dozen popular items, but you should choose a memento that resonates with your loved one. (Just be sure it doesn’t fall into the “no” category for potentially dangerous items.)
What Do People Put in a Casket?
Families often choose to bury their loved ones with sentimental items. These mementos can honor someone’s personality, offer comfort, or reflect cultural and spiritual traditions. Here are twelve meaningful things people commonly place in a casket:
1. Photographs
A photo tucked into a hand, pocket, or near the heart is a simple and powerful reminder of love. Families often choose a favorite solo shot, a family photo, or one that tells a story.
2. Handwritten Letters
Writing a letter to the person who passed allows for a final conversation, a thank-you, or a heartfelt goodbye. Some families invite others to write notes and add them to the casket during the visitation.
3. Religious Items
Rosaries, prayer cards, small statues, or scriptures are frequently included, especially if the person had a strong spiritual or religious connection.
4. Favorite Jewelry
Watches, rings, or necklaces are commonly placed in caskets, especially if the person wore them daily or made a special request. Some families choose costume jewelry to avoid worry over theft or damage.
5. Comfort Objects
Teddy bears, soft blankets, or cherished belongings like a favorite scarf often go with children or those who found comfort in specific items during life.
6. Hobby Keepsakes
Golf balls, fishing lures, paintbrushes, or small tools can reflect a person’s passions. If it brought them joy in life, it’s worth considering.
7. Books or Poems
A beloved book of poetry, a novel they read yearly, or a handwritten copy of a favorite poem can feel especially meaningful.
8. Cultural or Traditional Tokens
Some cultures include symbolic money, paper goods, or small offerings to prepare loved ones for the next life or honor tradition.
9. Personal Notes or Inside Jokes
A small scrap of paper with a shared phrase, a running joke, or a special memory can make the moment personal and heartfelt.
10. Small Toys or Trinkets
Children often receive stuffed animals, favorite figurines, or other comfort items. Things to put into a casket from grandchildren often include toys or trinkets that hold a special memory.
11. Favorite Candy or Snacks
A wrapped candy bar, gum, or mints may seem small, but they’re often chosen as a lighthearted and sweet sendoff.
12. Handful of Soil or Flower Petals
Some families add these natural elements as a final ritual before closing the casket, especially if they can’t be present at burial.
H2: What You Can’t Put in a Casket
While many items are allowed, some can pose safety hazards or environmental concerns. What’s restricted depends on whether the casket is being buried or cremated.
If your loved one is being cremated, the high heat and sensitive equipment mean you must avoid:
- Battery-operated items
- Electronics
- Alcohol, lighters, or anything flammable
- Glass or metal
Burial offers the most flexibility when it comes to leaving keepsakes in caskets, but you should avoid:
- Human remains from anyone else unless permitted
- Pet remains (unless the cemetery allows it)
- Items prohibited by cemetery rules
Always check with your funeral director. They can confirm what’s allowed based on local laws, cremation guidelines, and cemetery policies.
Saying Goodbye, Your Way
Whether it’s a note, a keepsake, or a symbol of faith, the item you place in a loved one’s casket is a moment of connection, memory, and meaning. Here are other ideas to honor a loved one, whether throwing an epic celebration of life, choosing a permanent resting place, or finding the perfect sympathy or memorial gift.
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